Sunday, December 9, 2012

Autosuggestion

Auto Suggestion

The Medium for influencing the Subconscious Mind


In reading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill I have once again realized just how important my thoughts are. In his 3rd Chapter on Autosuggestion, Napoleon states that autosuggestion is plain and simple self-suggestion, another word for self talk.

If you are like me I engage in self talk all day long. Some of the self talk is positive and some of it isn’t. This self talk is what is totally influencing my life. Whatever is the dominating thought at the moment – that is what is being fed into my subconscious mind. My subconscious mind isn’t picky; it will accept the negative just as easily as the positive. Napoleon uses the idea of the mind being like a garden. Imagine a garden overrun with unsightly weeds. That is your subconscious mind being feed by negative thoughts. Now think about a garden filled with beautiful spring flowers, flowers of every color and vibrant with life. Visualize them swaying in the afternoon breeze and the sun shining down on you and the garden. That's the subconscious mind being feed by positive thoughts. It is our choice as to what we will think about. When you reflect on the past, do you choose to think of hurt and regret or do you remember the good times, the laughter, and the positive aspects of life. Every moment of every day is a choice. Do I want weeds or flowers? It is a simple choice but so, so hard to do.

Another aspect that Napoleon mentions repeatedly is that our thoughts need to be emotionalized with feeling. Just reading or writing something is never enough. I guess our subconscious mind doesn’t like a bland diet. He states that “You will get no appreciable results until you learn to reach your subconscious mind with thoughts or spoken words which have been well emotionalized with belief.” This makes sense to me. In the past when I have tried visualization and writing my desires, etc I just did the writing or thinking in a neutral sort of way. I never really felt a passion about anything I was writing or desiring. I guess I was basically just going through the motions. Napoleon says we need to really concentrate on our desire. We need to fix all our attention on the desire with our eyes closed. Concentrate until we can actually see the physical appearance of the object of our desire. We should do this at least once a day. This is something I have not done in the past. But you can be assured it will be something I plan to do from now on. I do have a burning desire, a passion, a definite chief aim/purpose in life. I can see it, feel it, taste it and touch it in my mind. I need to concentrate on it at least once every day with all the passion I can muster.

Do you have a passion, something you want to have, do or be? Is this something you want so bad you can hardly stand it. If so, autosuggestion might be a method you should use to help achieve it. One of the tools I am using to help achieve my dream/desire is Empower Network. Empower Network is helping LOTS of people achieve their dreams, and they are achieving them in record time. If you are really serious about success, click on the link and check it out. I am sure you will be pleased with what you learn.

Have a fantastic day.
Adios until next time,
Charyl aka Mom8isme
Empower Network


Saturday, December 8, 2012

Faith

Faith allows things to happen. It is the power that comes from
a fearless heart. And when a fearless heart believes, miracles
happen.

 
I am still reading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. It is an awesome book with so many words of wisdom. Seems like I am learning something new on every page. The 3rd chapter is called Faith. So much good information.

I hadn’t thought that much about “Faith” before except in the Spiritual realm. When I think of faith I think of the scripture Hebrews 11:1 “Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things unseen. “ I had not transferred “faith” into the everyday world. But it is true for day to day living, too. If you don’t have faith you really have nothing. Napoleon says “A mind dominated by positive emotions, becomes a favorable abode for the state of mind known as faith. A mind so dominated may, at will, give the subconscious mind instructions, which it will accept and act upon immediately."

Our subconscious mind obeys instructions at will. If we think negative thoughts our subconscious mind will think that is what we want to happen. I remember listening to Michael Clouse explain it years ago. He basically said our thoughts and words are like the captain of a ship and our subconscious mind is like the man down in the ship carrying out the instructions. The man down below doesn’t hear the words “not” or “don’t”, or anything like that. If I were to say “I don’t want to run out of money”. All he hears is “Run out of money”. And basically says “OK”. I say “I don’t want to run out of gas.” And he hears “Run out of gas”. “OK”. He just carries out the instructions. He doesn’t analyze it or think twice about it. He just makes it happen. Needless to say, we are our own worst enemies by thinking negative thoughts. THIS is why so often our worse fears come true. We literally think our way poor or sick or….. Consequently, our thoughts and words are extremely important. This is where Napoleon comes up with the Think and Grow Rich. We are what we think about. Poor or rich, sick or well, fat or thin, etc.

Needless to say, we need to continuously have positive thoughts. We need to have faith in the belief that we can succeed in whatever we are striving for. We need to, as the Bible says in 2 Corinthians 10:5, “Take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.” We cannot have any negative, unproductive thoughts or the little guy down in our subconscious mind will have a hay day and make it happen. Scary thought. I want to only have positive productive thoughts and experiences in my life. I want to have faith in the positive.

Napoleon has a poem in his book. He doesn’t list the author, but it is so good, I can’t pass up sharing it here.

 
If you think you are beaten, you are,
If you think you dare not, you don’t.
If you like to win, but think you can’t,
It is almost certain you won’t.

If you think you’ll lose, you’re lost
For out of the world we find,
Success begins with a fellow’s will –
It’s all in the state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed, you are,
You’ve got to think high to rise,
You’ve got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win a prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger or faster man,
But soon or late the man who wins
Is the man WHO THINKS HE CAN!

 
Do you think you can? I do. I truly believe I am and will be successful. I truly believe that I have found the way to success. I truly believe Empower Network and blogging daily will be the means for me to have the desires of my heart.

I would love for you to check out Empower Network. People are being super successful and so can you. I would love to have you join me on this awesome journey. Just click on the link and check it out. You won’t be sorry.

Until next time. Be sure and think positive thoughts and have faith.

Charyl aka Mom8isme
Empower Network



Wednesday, December 5, 2012

SELF-CONFIDENCE FORMULA

Your chances of success in any undertaking can always be measured by your belief in yourself!!
Robert Collier
 
I was reading in Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. Chapter 3 is entitled Faith. Faith is so important in all that we do. If we don't have "faith" we don't have anything. If we don't have faith that we can do something, there is a pretty good chance we won't be able to do it.
 
The key to having Faith in ourselves in having positive Self Confidence. As I am working on a daily basis with people in my J-O-B I have noticed that having a negative self image and lack of self confidence is everywhere. I personally want to have a positive self image and buckets of self confidence. Truth be told I probably need a good shot of self confidence. Napoleon gave an awesome formula for Self-Confidence. Since needing more self-confidence seems to affect so many people I am going to write out Napoleon's formula. Think I will try it and see what happens. You might want to give it a shot too.
 
SELF-CONFIDENCE FORMULA
 
1. I know that I have the ability to achieve the object of my Definite Purpose in life, therefore, I DEMAND of myself persistent, continuous action toward its attainment, and I here and now promise to render such action.
 
2. I realize the dominating thoughts of my mind will eventually reproduce themselves in outward, physical action, and gradually transform themselves into physical reality, therefore, I will concentrate my thoughts for 30 minutes daily, upon the task of thinking of the person I intend to become, thereby creating in my mind a clear mental picture of that person.
 
3. I know through the principle of auto-suggestion, any desire that I persistently hold in my mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of attaining the object back of it, therefore, I will devote 10 minutes daily to demanding of myself the development of SELF-CONFIDENCE.
 
4. I have clearly written down a description of my DEFINITE CHIEF AIM in life, and I will never stop trying, until I shall have developed sufficient self-confidence for its attainment.
 
5. I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure, unless built upon truth and justice, therefore, I will engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects. I will succeed by attracting to myself the forces I wish to use, and the cooperation of other people. I will induce others to serve me, because of my willingness to serve others. I will eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness, and cynicism, by developing love for all humanity, because I know that a negative attitude towards others can never bring me success. I will cause others to believe in me, because I will believe in them and in myself.
 
I will sign my name to this formula, commit it to memory, and repeat it aloud once a day, with full FAITH that it will gradually influence my THOUGHTS and ACTIONS so that I will become a self-reliant, and successful person.
 
So, do you think this will help? I sure do. This is something I plan to commit to now. I want to be successful. I want my Definite Chief Aim in Life to be a reality. I am so excited to be involved with Empower Network. Empower Network is my ticket to success and to the fulfillment of my Burning Desire. Success is just around the corner.
 
Are you looking for success? Do you have a Burning Desire you wish to fulfill? Empower Network just might be your ticket to success too. Why don't you try it? Just check it out. You won't be sorry.
 
Until next time,
Charyl aka mom8isme

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Desire into Gold

The Size of your success is measured by the strength of your desire; the size of your dream; and how you handle disappointment along the way.

Robert Kiyosaki

 
I am continuing to read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. Chapter 2 on Desire is truly amazing. Napoleon has a section on 6 Ways to Turn Desire into Gold. OK, that is something I want to learn and make part of my life. I want Gold/Riches. Don't you??
The 6 Steps are:
1. Fix in your mind the exact amount of money you desire. Be definite as to the amount.

2. Determine exactly what you intend to give in return for the money you desire.
3. Establish a definite date when you intend to possess the money you desire.
4. Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire and begin at once, whether you are ready or not to put this plan into action.
5. Write out a clear, concise statement of the amount of money you intend to acquire, name the time limit for its acquisition, state what you intend to give in return for the money, and describe clearly the plan through which you intend to accumulate it.
6. Read your written statement aloud, twice daily, once just before retiring at night, and once after arising in the morning. As you read - see and feel and believe yourself already in possession of the money.
I really like this plan. I plan to do this soon, if not before. I was listening to Earl Nightingale, The Strangest Secret Ever Told tonight. He was saying basically the same thing. Both men are saying we are what we think. If we want to be a success we need to think and feel we are successful. I need to have a desire for success so entrenched in my thinking that I am acting as if I am already successful. I need to think, feel and do as if I have already arrived.
I always felt I needed to arrive before I acted successful. I felt I was lying to the world if I wasn't 100% transparent as to who I am at the moment. But if I am truly believing, than I need to act as if my desire for financial success has already come true. Desire = Reality. Reminds me of what the Bible says about having the faith of a child. Children believe just because. I have a friend on facebook that I have known for quite a while. She told the story today about a conversation she had with her daughter. "Earlier, I told Brooke we needed some rain and her response was: "Well I will just ask Jesus for some." A bit ago, I told her to come look we were getting a little rain. Her response this time: Well, yes, I asked Jesus for it you silly!" Isn't that awesome. To desire and believe like it had already happened. She wasn't surprised at all. THAT is what I want my thinking to be like.
The neat thing is that for the 1st time in a long time I have a desire and a belief that it is all possible. With Empower Network it is all possible. If I do all the steps Napoleon says and keep my focus on success, there is no way to not succeed. I am on the adventure of a life time. Sure hope you choose to come along for the ride. If you are interested, just click on Empower Network and send me your email. You will not be sorry. You don't want the opportunity to pass you up.
Until tomorrow,
Charyl aka Mom8isme
Empower Network


Monday, December 3, 2012

Desire

Desire is the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen pulsating desire which transcends everything.
Napoleon Hill

Last night I read Chapter 2 of Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. Chapter 2 is titled Desire. Napoleon says “Desire is the starting point of all achievement”. If a person does not have a burning desire they won’t stay the course.

I think, for me, in the past, I had more of a wishing type hope that I would succeed. I never really thought I would. Never truly believed I would. Although I loved some of the products I sold in other network marketing companies, I never could see myself successful. I could never see myself up on stage being one of the success stories. I have enjoyed J-O-Bs but I don’t think I have had a “burning desire”. Now I do!!! I have a burning desire to make this adventure with Empower Network succeed. I have a burning desire to get my life back. Yes, I want to retire from my job. Yes, I want to visit my kids and grandkids. Yes, I want to wake up in the morning and have choices. Bur I have to admit – my burning desire is to have the financial freedom to make those things a reality.
 
Last night when I was reading it was talking about burning your bridges so you couldn’t retreat. Napoleon said “Every person who wins in any undertaking must be willing to cut all sources of retreat. Only by doing so can one be sure of maintaining that state of mind known as a burning desire to win - essential to success.” This is what I want. I want to burn my bridges so I have to win. I don’t want to give myself an option. I don’t want an escape plan or a Plan B. It is Plan A – Empower Network – or nothing. I will make it work.

I would love to have you along for the ride. Wouldn’t it be awesome to have us both standing there looking back and seeing the path to success that we took. Looking back and seeing that the burning desire we both had carried us through.

If that is a journey you would like to take, click on the button and start your own adventure toward having your hopes, dreams and burning desire come true. Let’s enjoy the ride together.

Until next time, have a fantastic day.
Charyl aka mom8isme
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Sunday, December 2, 2012

Education is the KEY

"Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything he learned in school"
Albert Einstein

I saw this quote today and got to thinking about education. I graduated from high school and then college years ago. My “formal” education was over at that point. For a while my learning stopped. OK, I learned things here and there. Who can help but learn some things when you have as many kids as I do. BUT, I wouldn’t consider it a type of learning that made me a better person or improved who I was. That is, until I got involved in network marketing. The 1st couple companies I got involved with – I totally sucked at. But they did encourage learning. Learning from some of the pros. I read books and listened to messages from people like Zig Ziglar, Brian Tracy, Michael Clouse and Chris Widener. I look back and realize that because of that “learning”, I am no longer the person I was before. I have grown and matured in ways I never would have without that form of learning. This has been a practice I have continued and totally benefited from.

Since getting involved with Empower Network, they have also encouraged reading daily. It is one of the 8 core commitments. Core Commitment #7: Read Daily “Leaders Are Readers”. Not something that will be hard because I have been pre-conditioned to do it.

Today I started reading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill again for the 3rd or 4th time. This book always has something awesome to learn from it. Chapter 1 – Thoughts are Things really brought back how important my thought life is. My thoughts are so powerful they will either make or break me. If I truly believe 100% within my soul that I will succeed at something, and I don’t waver, my subconscious will find a way to make it happen. The key is to have a definite major purpose, a coveted goal, a burning desire, a passion. Napoleon said “I had learned, from years of experience with men, that when a man really desires a thing so deeply that he is willing to stake his entire future on a single turn of the wheel in order to get it, he is sure to win.” Consequently, I need to have a definite major purpose. I need to have something that I want so badly that I can taste it. For me, my burning desire is to have the financial freedom so I can travel, take pictures and write. I want the freedom to be able to do what I want to do. For the 1st time in a long time I feel the hope that my freedom is right around the corner. With Empower Network I know it will happen. My goal is to retire from my J-O-B on or before my next birthday. Will I make it happen? You bet I will.

Do you have a dream? A goal? A burning desire? A passion? Maybe, just maybe Empower Network is your ticket to fulfilling that dream. Napoleon said in his book, “Psychologists have correctly said that “when one is truly ready for a thing, it puts in its appearance.”

Do you think maybe it just has???

Check out my Empower Network site and see what you think.

Until next time,
Charyl
“mom8isme”

Friday, November 30, 2012

Who is Mom8isme?




So, who am I?  Decided you needed to know who you are reading about.  My name is Charyl Hann Armstrong.  I was born and grew up in San Diego, CA.  Graduated from San Diego High School in 1967.  See, I am close to retirement age.  It will be here before I know it.  Tho I am really planning on retiring from my J-O-B as soon as possible.  Now that I have started Empower Network I feel that is a real possibility.
After high school I attended San Diego State University, earning my BA in Accounting.  Passed the CPA exam and worked accounting jobs until I became a full time stay at home mom.
This is where the Mom 8 comes in.  Over the years I became Mom to 8 kids, 4 by birth and 4 by adoption.  After Dennis and I got married I added 4 step kids.  So really I have 12 kids ages 20 to 44.  I love being a mom.  BUT I really LOVE being a grandma.  At the moment we have 15 grandkids, ages 1 ½ to 17, and we aren’t even close to being finished. The picture above is a small fraction of the family at Thanksgiving this year.
Back to work.  I worked accounting jobs off and on over the years until I got involved in the mental health field.  Some of my adopted kids struggle with mental illness.  I got involved with NAMI (National Alliance for Mental Illness), am on the board and teach a few of their classes.  At the moment my J-O-B is in the Independent Living Field.  I am an IL Advocate for youth.  I attend a lot of IEP meetings advocating for the kids with disabilities to have all the modifications and accommodations they deserve.  It’s an OK job if a person has to work – but – I want my time back.  I want to have the freedom to do the things I want to on a daily basis.
Over the years I have been in Network Marketing.  Sold needlework, skin care and vitamins.  Nothing really jelled so quit.  Felt like I sucked at it.  I knew the model worked but just couldn’t get it to work for me.  This time everything feels different.  I finally have hope that this will work.  Good company, awesome comp plan – who can beat 100% commissions, and fantastic support.  I am going to make this work!!!
So what else would you want to know about me.  I love to travel, take pixs and write.  What better program than one that requires me to write a blog every day. 
Like I said before I love being a mom and grandma and one of the biggest reasons I want to retire from my J-O-B is so that I can be an active part in my grandkids lives.  Every day I am missing things in their lives.  Before I know it they will be grown and having families of their own.  They are only going to be young once.  Family is a huge priority for me. 
I don’t know where you are in your life right now but if you are like me and want a shot at freedom be sure to check out Empower Network.  It is what it says and people are making tons of money with it.  If you do the 8 core steps you can’t help but succeed.  Check it out – I am sure you will be impressed.

Have an awesome day.
Charyl